Last Updated on November 13, 2019 11:05 AM
Since this topic seems to be taboo in the fitness world, I decided to give you my guide on how to get lean and not bulky.
So, if you are wondering how to get lean legs without gaining muscle, or how to tone your arms without making them bigger and bulkier, read this blog post.
OK, so I get this question a LOT. I was in the same situation a couple of years ago, so I can speak from my own personal experience.
When I started going to the gym, my goal was simple – reduce body fat and get toned.
So, in the beginning, I was mainly focusing on cardio, and I skipped resistance training. Cardio helped me slim down and reduce body fat but it didn’t help me get toned.
And when I asked for advice, I was told I should forget about cardio and try weights. I saw a lot of girls doing it, and everybody kept telling me it’s the right way to go, so I kind of went for it.
And at first, I was really happy and excited about my progress! I was getting stronger and toned, and I even had proper abs. But after a certain point, my back became too broad, and I felt like my thighs were HUGE. I just started feeling like I was too bulky.
I was constantly asking myself, why am I getting bigger instead of slimming down? I talked to different personal trainers at my gym, and they all told me the same thing – women cannot bulk up, they don’t have enough testosterone.
But that’s simply not true!
To be honest, I’m so tired of hearing that women can’t get bulky. If a woman thinks that she has too much muscle and looks bulky, then who is anyone to tell her that she is wrong?
It may be nothing compared to the 6-pack bodybuilder next to you in the gym, but it can be too much for your own liking.
This is completely up to you. For myself, I prefer a lean look with some muscle but still a slim frame. And I don’t like much muscle on my legs. This is my own personal preference.
So, when I realized that my body had changed in a way that I didn’t like, I decided to do something about it. I did a lot of research; I tried different styles of training and finally figured out what was causing me to get bigger:
I was doing the WRONG type of resistance training. So, if you are also bulking up, instead of slimming down, you’re probably making the same mistake. But I’m going to tell you what are the best exercises to do – and which ones you should avoid – to get lean without getting
There are 4 simple steps you should follow if you want to get toned without getting too muscular. This is what I have learned over the years in terms of the type of exercises to do and which ones to avoid to achieve this look.
How you look toned is actually by gaining muscle, which might sound contradictory, but you need muscle to look toned. I know some of you may be tempted to just skip resistance training in fear of getting muscular (been there, done that), but I promise you, there’s a way to do it without bulking up.
Let me explain :)
This is what I looked like before I started doing any resistance training, compared to what I looked like after a few months.
As you can see, I was not toned, and I had more body fat – gaining muscle will help you lose body fat quicker.
Muscles are more metabolically active than fat, which means they burn more calories through out the day. So, if you have more muscle, you’ll burn more calories than someone who has a high percentage of body fat.
Also, you cannot look toned if you don’t have muscle. So, even if you do tons of cardio and manage to slim down, you won’t get nice muscle definition if you skip resistance training.
There are some exercises that build muscle in a way that makes you look more muscular and others which don’t. The type of exercises that will get you toned without looking overly muscular include:
I posted 3 free resistance-training sessions on my blog, so have a look at these to get an idea of the type of exercises I’m talking about:
In my experience, these are the types of exercises that contribute to the bulky look. Don’t get me wrong – they are great exercises for your body. But if you want a leaner look, avoid them.
I mentioned body type twice in the previous sections, and I talk about body types a lot on my blog. Knowing your body type is VERY important when you’re deciding on your fitness goals. And it’s even more important when you’re planning how to achieve your goals.
There are three main body types, and two of those can become bulky very easily! They all lose weight and build muscle differently, so it’s super important to know how to train for your body type.
If you are an ectomorph body type, like Karlie Kloss, you are most likely naturally very slim, and you don’t build muscle very easily. So, workouts – like squats and HIIT – are not very likely to bulk you up.
You should do cardio to stay lean and incorporate resistance training in order to get toned and avoid the skinny fat look.
Mesomorphs, like Jessica Biel, are usually of average size, and they lose and gain weight quite quickly. Also, they are athletic by nature, which means they can build muscle easily.
So, if you are a mesomorph, and you want to get toned without becoming too muscular, you should do cardio to reduce body fat and skip certain types of resistance training. I’m also a mesomorph body type, and as I mentioned, I tend to bulk up when I do CrossFit and heavy lifting.
Endomorphs, like Jennifer Lopez, have a naturally bigger frame, and they can bulk up easily if they do the wrong type of resistance training.
For example, most endomorphs should do plenty of cardio and avoid HIIT and weights if they want to get a leaner look.
To keep a smaller frame, you should be incorporating cardio into your workout program. I love running and walking and am always slimmer when I do cardio.
Plus, they’re both great for leaning out your legs and losing weight. I would try to do cardio around 3 times per week.
A lot of women have asked me how to get skinny legs without getting gaining muscle and whether certain types of workouts cause bulkiness. So, I will answer these here :)
Ectomorphs and mesomorphs are probably fine with cycling, but endomorphs might try to avoid it. I am a mesomorph and used to do a spin class a couple of times per week, and I was fine (but I did a lot of running, also).
I would just make sure you don’t overdo it on the cycling and monitor it to see how you go. If you notice your legs starting to bulk up, I would stop and focus on the walking/running.
Pump classes are also fine, and I don’t think you will bulk up doing pump class as it is VERY high rep and usually pretty light-weight.
But again, I wouldn’t overdo it. I used to do Pump and was fine. I just prefer to do other exercises now, as I find them more effective and also don’t take as much time.
Dancing is quite variable, so it depends on the type of dancing you’re doing.
I think most dancing should be fine. But again, I would just monitor it and see how your body responds. I love dancing, and if you love it, I would definitely do it!
If you have any more questions, feel free to ask in the comments section! :)
If you need help with getting lean because you bulk up from weights, or you don’t know where to start with resistance training, then my 3 Steps to Lean Legs Program is perfect for you!
My program includes a full workout and nutrition program which will help you get a lean and toned body without adding unwanted muscles. And because all of us are different, I have created separate programs for each of the 3 main body types. This way, you can be sure you are going to get the best possible results!
And from now on, the resistance training part of my program will also have FULL-LENGTH VIDEOS you can follow from warm-up to cool down.