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Why I Don’t Lift Heavy Weights Anymore

By Rachael Attard, Updated Aug 18, 2020
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I’ve been working out in a gym for about 10 years now (but more intensely over the last 6 years). I’m a qualified personal trainer, I worked at a functional training gym that focused on strength, I did HIIT, I did CrossFit, I’ve done triathlons, I’ve done heavy lifting.

But now my training is very different to what is was back then. I don’t focus on heavy lifting and my goals aren’t about trying to squat a certain weight or do a certain amount of pull ups. This is why I don’t lift heavy weights anymore.

WHY I DON’T LIFT HEAVY WEIGHTS ANYMORE

To put it simply, I don’t like the way it makes my body look. This is very specific to me and my ideal body shape.

Every time I go down the heavy lifting path and start a new strength focused training program, my legs become really muscular and my back becomes really broad.

The difference is so much that I need to buy new clothes as my bras and shirts no longer fit around my bust, and my jeans don’t fit around my thighs.

I’m a mesomorph body type which means I gain muscle quite easily so if you are also a mesomorph, the same thing may happen to you.

Some of you might be thinking I’m crazy and that there’s nothing wrong with having muscular thighs or a broad back. But it’s just not for me and I’m not happy like that. And being happy is important. You should never do a workout program if:

  1. You don’t like the results;
  2. You don’t like doing it; or
  3. You think you should be doing it because everyone else is.

PRESSURE TO LIFT HEAVY

I know there is a lot of pressure put on people now in the gym to lift heavy. I will admit that sometimes I feel embarrassed going to the gym and doing a “girly” class, doing ab exercises, doing a body weight circuit or using the really light dumbbells and doing things like donkey kicks.

I feel like people are looking at me like “oh she’s a newbie.” I’m definitely not. But I still feel that pressure.

why i don't lift heavy weights anymore

I think social media has a lot do with it – all those hashtags #girlswholift #legdays #squats.

I’ve even had personal trainers approach me when I’m on the treadmill (thinking I’m a beginner) asking me if I want help with a program. Ummm no thank you. Cardio is part of my program and I like it :) I like doing it and I like what it does for my body.

I don’t judge women who lift heavy or do crossfit – they love it so I’m happy for them! So I don’t think other people should judge me and other women because we DON’T do these things.

CHOOSE A WORKOUT PLAN THAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU!

Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing!

Don’t do something just because you think that’s what you should be doing or because everyone else is doing it. You shouldn’t dread working out either – it should be something you actually enjoy.

If you don’t like lifting heavy weights, don’t do it! If you think Pilates is a waste of time, don’t do it! Everyone’s different. There are SO many ways to exercise and get in shape these days, you don’t have to conform to what everyone else is doing to get results and be happy.

THE WORKOUTS I DO NOW

So what am I doing now? Mostly I follow my own 3 Steps to Lean Legs Program. The workouts in here are lower intensity resistance circuits that are all light weight (using body weight, light weights or a resistance band), and also includes a mix of cardio. I like doing cardio because I actually feel SO good afterwards and it helps me keep a leaner look.

I admit that I am not as strong as I once was. I can’t do a pull up and I can’t pump out 20 push ups on my toes like I once could. But I don’t aspire to do these things. You can still be fit, healthy and in good shape without lifting heavy weights.

I’m much happier now with the way I look and feel. And I actually love doing these type of workouts. So for me, it’s a win win! My workouts have changed a lot over the years. But I honestly don’t see myself going back to heavy lifting.

I would love to hear from any of you that are in the same situation! xx

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Rachael is an Australian born certified personal trainer and nutritionist who holds a Bachelor degree in Science.

After struggling for years to find an exercise and diet program that is tailored to women striving for lean and toned body with no bulk she designed her Lean Legs Program. This program is tailored to each body type and focused on helping women get toned but feminine bodies, without getting bulky.

Her mission is to empower women and help them stay in shape in a healthy and balanced way.

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72 comments on “Why I Don’t Lift Heavy Weights Anymore”

    Molly says:

    Hi I am having this exact problem, and it’s left me feeling so badly about my body. I am petite but put on muscle extremely easily, but also fat. Ever since I started lifting it’s honestly just make me bigger and I hate how it looks. I’m not sure where to go from here or how to even eat anymore to get back to where I was.

      Ana - Lean Legs Support says:

      Hey lovely,

      Thanks for reaching out! :)

      Since this requires a few messages exchanged, I suggest that you reach out to info@rachaelattard.com and we’ll be more than glad to help you! :) xx

      Love,
      Ana

    Bob Francis says:

    I don’t lift heavy anymore because it never made me feel good. I stopped weight lifting more than two days a week because every day I fatigued afterwards when I weight lifted six days a week. I feel pressure to lift more to look bigger, but I don’t want to have to buy more clothes and eat more food to keep up appearances. Being happy and feeling good is more important that what others think and no one seemed to care when I was super strong before I stopped heavy weight training.

      Sanja - Lean Legs Support says:

      Hi lovely,

      thanks for reaching out! <3

      I completely agree that being happy and feeling good is always more important than what others think :) I'm glad that you found what makes you happy!

      Love,
      Sanja

    Leia says:

    Hello! I have a question I am pretty interested in regarding training. So, I don’t want to build any more muscle, but I want to just get stronger. Is this goal possible if I mix lifting very heavy with really low reps (3-5) on some days and lift light weight with high reps (15-20) on other days?

      Ana - Lean Legs Support says:

      Hey lovely,

      I suggest that you find and reach out to a PT that is specialized in lifting so they can give you the best possible advice to reach your goal as fast as possible. :)
      Rachael Program is focused on leaning out and toning your boy which is the total opposite.

      Love,
      Ana